I feel overwhelmed and yet my boyfriend says touchy-feely is just his style?

I get irritated as my bf wants to constantly kiss and grab for me, cuddle etc. I am a warm, compionate person and usually like being touched but something rubs me (literally) the wrong way and I feel guilty for being irritated at such a great guy. I am trying to figure out if our different styles can be negotiated or if my bad fit with his touch is just too hurtful to us both. We have only been dating 3 months and I am divorced and very much want to make any next relationships open and mutually-satisfying. We are good fits intellectually and how we value family and children. I'd welcome any insights.