When someone needs time....whats the best approach ?

Last time a girl told me she is getting therapy and needed a break it was the beginning of the end. Let her be. Something is definitely not wrong, and she could be bull$hitting you about several things. Who knows if you'll ever get the truth. Point is, you thought the future was more secure, she thought otherwise, thinks things are spinning out of control, and is hitting the brakes, denoting you and her are on two different planes. $hit happens, man, and people WILL surprise you, usually for the worse, so start getting used to being on your own. One day you just might get the truth as to why she is doing all this crap. For now, don't believe her 100% with the shrink bull$hit and the "I need space" crap. Harsh news, but you'll live. I'm in my 30's and this kind of $hit just pisses me off at this point. I'd just tell her: She wants be alone, go ahead, don't waste time and wait for years and then tiptoe around her so she doesn't get a flashback. Eff that! You'll be fine. She is doing you a favor, dude!! One less psycho getting married!